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Scripture of the Month
Pastor's Corner by Pastor Larry Tong

July 2007

Before I sign off, I would like to invite you to know God as your Heavenly Father. To show His love for you, He made a decision to sent His Son Jesus to die on the cross to pay for the penalty of Sin so that by believing in Jesus, you may have Eternal Life. Will you make a decision to accept God as your Father?

“Stressed Out!” You’ve been there, haven’t you? You know what it was like to have a million of things to do with deadlines fast approaching. You planned to do one thing at a time, yet nothing went right. You felt you are going one step forward but two steps backward. Most of us know what that was like.

Every so often you’ll hear a person talk about trying to “eliminate” stress from his life. Is that possible? I don’t really think so. Stress is a part of life. It can, in fact, be a good part of life, though you may not feel that way while you’re under pressure. Physiological speaking, the right amount of stress can make our mind sharp and help us to respond to change of situation more quickly. Without going into detail how the brain works, just say that it has to do with adrenaline that floods the bloodstream, increasing our alertness and performance. When the stressful situation passed, we have a chance to rest and everything return to normalcy. Normal stress cycle is nothing unhealthy about it.

The problem occurs when there are too many stressful situations in our lives. That’s the time when our bodies are not given a chance to get through the resting cycle. Our bodies are like “rubber-bands.” When stretched, it will return to its original elastic form (of course, unless it’s too old), and ready to be stretched again. But when the body is over-stretched for a long period of time, it will not be able to return to its original form. Therefore, we need to learn how to manage stress.

The Bible tells us that we have three components—spirit, soul and body—all intertwined, and each affecting the others. Simply put, the Spirit is used to interact with God; the Soul is our emotion and is also used to interact with others; and our body is the physical component. To manage stress well, we need to have adequate rests. The best way to “rest” the spirit is to be at God’s presence. True, we probably can’t spend a lot of time during a given day to meditate the Twenty-third Psalm, but encountering God every day will enhance a healthy spiritual life which is the foundation of the totality of mental health. In order to “rest” our soul, we probably need to change our philosophy of life. One way that may help us is to be more positive, more up-beat. Look for the good things rather than the negative things. The Bible says, “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” When we don’t have good mental health, it will affect our relationship with God and with others, and will also cause physical health to deteriorate. Finally, have adequate rest, exercise, and a good diet. Practice self-control, especially with our diet. What we put in our mouth may not always benefit our health.

Before I sign off, I wish all of you good health. Jesus said, “I have come that they (you) may have life, and have it to the full.” To have a full life includes a healthy spirit, soul and body. I have three questions for you to consider: How is your relationship with God? How is your relationship with others? Do you have anything you enjoy doing to do to de-stress?

Pastor Larry



「超壓!」你可能都有這經歷,對嗎?你知有千件事情需要你去處理而期限卻燒到眼眉。你計劃要按步就班的去做,但卻總是不能上軌;前進一步,卻倒退兩步。我想我們都有類似這樣的經驗。

久不久你會聽到有人說要「清除」生活帶來的壓力。這是可能嗎?我想是不可能的,因為壓力是生命的一部份。雖然在重壓之下你可能不會感受得到,但其實它可以是好的。在生理而言,適當的壓力會幫助我們有較敏銳的思想及對環境有敏捷的反應。人的腦部運作是非常的覆雜,簡單來說,當人面對突發事件帶出的壓力的時候,體內就會分泌腎上腺素沖在血液中,因此反應能夠更快及履行工作時更有果效。當帶出壓力的事物過去之後,我們有機會鬆弛而身体就能回復正常。這樣的正常循環並不會帶出不健康的現像。

問題的產生是因為生活中有太多的壓力。在那個時候,身體沒有機會休息回復正常。我們的身體就好像「橡皮圈」,當被伸張之後而放鬆就會歸回原來的形状(當然如果是太舊的就不可能),以後可以再次被伸張。但當它被拉得太長太久的話,它就無法回復正常,所以我們務要去學習如何處理壓力。

聖經告訴我們,人是從三個位格組成—靈、魂、及體是不能分割的,都是互相影響的。簡單來分析,靈是與神聯繫;魂是我們的感情輿情緒,是與别人交往的;而身體就是人物質的部份。要好好處理壓力,我們需要有充足的休息。最好的方法去使「靈」得到休息,就是享受與神同在的時刻。不錯,我們不可能每日都用很多的時間去默想詩篇二十三篇,但每日去尋求經歷神卻會帶來健康的靈命,而這是全人康健的根基。要「魂」得到休息,我們可能需要調整我們的人生哲理,存更積極的態度來面對環境及人事,從正面而不是負面的眼光去看事情。聖經告訴我們:「喜樂的心,乃是良藥;憂傷的靈,使骨枯乾。」當我們沒有良好心理健康,會影響我們與神和其他人的關係,而且會使身體健康日衰。最後,我們需要有適量的休息、運動及有良好的飲食習慣;操練自制,特別是在食物方面,放得入口的東西就算是美味也未必是對健康有益的。

收筆之前,我祝你有一健康的身體。耶穌說:「我來了,是要叫人得生命,並且得的更豐盛。」有豐盛的人生包括健康的身、心、靈。我有三個問題請你去思想:你輿神的關係如何?你輿别人的關係如何?你有什麽喜歡做的事是用來減壓的呢? 

唐若愚牧師



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